Stillness is Part of Preparation

Waiting for the door to open

A fresh New Year lies ahead, like a pilgrim’s path stretched through hills we can’t see over or around. These days of winter, when all the world rests, are for us to still and silent before You.  They are to seek Your direction for the times ahead, and for the ability to find Your foot-printed path leading the way.

They are a time for quiet Communion.

The bag of dreams opens before You. One purposeful possibility at a time set between us. Like unpolished gems, I turn them one way, then another, and search them for unseen potential.They are stones from a lifetime of journeying, tools and abilities developed or dormant, ideas untried. I seek the ones that stir the light in Your eyes, watching Your face for its life-giving grace.

I wait for Your word, a confirmation. It always comes. A gentle quiet, a surety, and the door opens. You give everything necessary for the journey ahead  and the tasks assigned.

We know each New Year will bring seasons of sun and sorrow, change with limits. We have enough mystery ahead to keep us curious and moving forward, and enough of God’s loving presence and providence to know we won’t be moving forward alone.

But today is for waiting, for drawing close to Your chest and listening to Your heart.

Stillness is part of preparation. It precedes new life for a New Year.

I wait for the Lord, my soul waits, and in His word I put my hope. Ps. 130:5



Holidays, Carts, and Horses

Or How We Get the Season Backward

The rush of holiday preparation, too much good food, and the inevitable list of New Year’s resolutions are a great example of how we get the season backwards. Our modern cultural response to Christmas sets us up to lose the meaning of the season.

Historically, the weeks before the celebration of Christ’s birth were spent in contemplation of the Incarnation. Known as the Advent season, it was a time and tradition with great purpose. Advent was to Christmas what Lent is to Resurrection Sunday, a time of spiritual housecleaning. It was also a time to anticipate and prepare for Christ’s Second Coming.

Joy heightened as the day of His nativity approached, but celebration didn’t begin until December 25th. It continued into the following weeks until January 6th, also known as Twelfth Night or Epiphany, when the Magi traditionally arrived. This was known as the Twelve Days of Christmas.

Today we do our soul searching in the days immediately following Christmas, in preparation for the new year. If our meager and self centered resolutions were all the preparation we made for Christ’s Second Coming it would be too little, too late. All our soul searching and hope for a new year would have been for nothing.

Once again our cultural cart is before the horse. Instead of the horse pulling the cart, we are left with an untenable situation. Our modern ‘tradition’ of holiday busyness is draining.  The soul of the season has been removed, and what God planned as a joyful, restorative time has the reverse effect.

But we have options. As we enter these high Holy Days we can make changes in our plans, sharpen our focus, educate our sensibilities and pass what we learn on to our children.

Most of all, we can listen to Christ whispering to our hearts. He came that we might have  a peaceful, abundant life, and He provided the order and plan for that to be accomplished. Let’s not miss the opportunity this Advent season to prepare our hearts for joy.

You can find out more about Advent at: (a Catholic site with basic history)

For a daily reference of events for you and your children leading up to the first Christmas visit:

For a comprehensive list of wonderful children’s stories and activities for Advent visit: